The very women I’m trying to help – the very women I’ve devoted my life to – often have a negative reaction to my advice. I’ll post something really positive about finding a quality, trustworthy man who makes a consistent effort to make you feel safe, heard and understood… I learn so much from my clients each day and I continue to pour that knowledge back into my coaching for your benefit.
Within seconds, I receive comments like: As a trustworthy guy, a happily married man, and a dating coach who has helped thousands of women find love, I tend to take such false statements personally. I should know that these women are in pain, that they don’t mean what they say, that they’re just venting and looking for support. That’s why I strongly encourage you to take my quiz: “Do You Attract the Wrong Men?
I can assure you: that change doesn’t involve giving up on men and love forever.
Basically almost all the “good” quality trustworthy men are men complaining women do not find attractive.
He may also be more adventurous than your spouse or other men you have dated.
Whatever the situation is, you are likely to have some great sex with a married man, even if most of the excitement comes from the possibility of being caught.
Hell, it’s even a relationship cliché: “Don’t try to fix her. ” When you’re done with my quiz, you will get an assessment as to whether you are Confident, Mildly Insecure, Insecure or Very Insecure.
Whatever the answer, just know that I’m not judging you whatsoever.
Getting to know someone new and trying new activities together is a lot of fun.
Deep in my heart I hope he will leave but don’t think he ever will.
I know you are going to tell me to forget about him and carry on with my life—but easier said than done.
A long-term relationship may feel boring and stale in comparison.
Even if you or your married lover has no plans of getting a divorce, the excitement of a new relationship may prove too hard to resist.